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Rewire the Ride

Aug 7
5 min read

Master the Mental Game with Hypnosis


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While I’m not an equestrian, I raised a daughter whose predominant focus throughout her life has been horses, and I’ve been along on the adventures of her now 30-year riding and training career. I’ve pulled the trailers, taken the photos, and shared in the victories and heartaches that came along the way. I’ve witnessed the stories playing out and have made plenty of observations.


What I’ve found is that the issues equestrians face are the same as what I hear from my non-equestrian clients. Limiting beliefs, fear, and anxious feelings can disrupt the joy you long to experience. Regardless of whether you aspire to ride at the highest competitive levels or simply want to feel confident and comfortable going on a trail ride or camping trip with your horse, hypnosis can help you address these challenges at their root while teaching you simple techniques to get into the right headspace for a more confident, enjoyable ride.



The Mind Behind The Ride


Mindset matters because being a successful rider involves a great degree of physical athleticism, but the mental and emotional aspects cannot be overstated. While it’s largely considered an individual sport, a rider’s success is just as dependent on the mental state of another living being as their own. As prey animals, horses are highly attuned to subtle emotions and physiological stress signals, so the mindset and energy the rider brings into the arena can make the difference between a relaxed, confident horse and one that mirrors the rider's nervousness or uncertainty. Being able to quiet your own mind is an important key to creating the harmony that allows both horse and rider to perform at their best.


Using hypnosis to improve sports performance is not a new concept. First documented in the 1950s, the use of hypnosis in sports likely began as an offshoot of sports psychology, which took root in the 1920s. The Soviet Union pioneered the use of mental training, including hypnosis, for Olympic athletes competing in the 1972 Munich Games. Since then, a growing list of elite athletes—including Tiger Woods, Michael Jordan, and Wayne Gretzky—have used hypnosis to improve performance.


The brain processes occurring in hypnosis closely mirror those athletes commonly describe as the "flow state," where focus becomes narrowed and external distractions fade into the background. Both states involve slowing activity in the prefrontal cortex—the area responsible for conscious thought, self-analysis, and the inner critic. In any sport, athletes have to "get their head in the game" to achieve this state, but for equestrians there is one very important difference. It isn’t just you in that arena. Your partner in the dance is another sentient being who brings their own thoughts, moods, and instincts into the experience.



Limiting Beliefs


We all have that inner critic that questions our abilities and magnifies our doubts. Maybe yours is saying things like, "You're too old to do this," "You'll never ride at that level," "You're not ready," or "You'll embarrass yourself."


These messages don’t come from nowhere. They’re driven by deeply ingrained subconscious beliefs that may or may not have anything to do with your riding abilities. Instead, they often originate from earlier life experiences—perhaps not even remotely related to riding or horses—that implanted themselves long ago and continue playing that same record in your mind.


“Deeply ingrained subconscious beliefs implanted long ago, that may have nothing to do with riding, can play on repeat, sabotaging your efforts.”


Hypnosis can help uncover where those messages began and rewrite them, so they support your efforts instead of sabotaging them.



Fear


I completely understand the fear that can be associated with riding! When I’ve gone trail riding on vacations, I’ve always told the concessionaire, "Put me on Slow Poke!" The risk of being injured on a horse is quite real, and you know that going into the sport. But still, every now and then that fear might creep in.


"What if... What if... What if..."


I’ve known very accomplished riders who were suddenly overcome by fear at the thought of riding their own horse. Maybe they suffered an injury or came close to doing so, and the memory of that experience became a constant reminder of the dangers of riding. Perhaps their trust in the horse—or in themselves—was shaken by something that happened.


“What if” anxiety can become a vicious cycle. Fear causes you to tense up. Your horse senses that tension and reacts, validating the very fear you were hoping to avoid.


Using hypnosis, we’ll explore the genesis of that fear, which may or may not even be related to your horse or riding at all. I recently worked with a rider who discovered through hypnosis that her newfound, unexplained fear of her horse hurting her had its roots in trust issues dating back decades. Once we uncovered the origins of the issue, she gained insights that helped her not only with her horse, but also within the family relationships where those trust issues had actually begun.



Performance Anxiety


The anxious feelings that crop up when you think about riding for an audience can stem from either of the two joy killers we've already discussed—or from something else entirely.


Riding your horse alone may be a relaxed and joyful experience, but get anywhere near a clinic or show arena and all bets are off. Sweaty palms. A pounding heart. Weak knees. A knotted stomach. Suddenly you begin second-guessing everything you know, and your horse feels it all and reacts accordingly.


I’ve heard many stories of horses who "just can't behave at a show." Imagine it from your horse's perspective. They're away from home, surrounded by unfamiliar horses in an unfamiliar environment, and now the person they trust most is sending off physiological signals that suggest danger.


It’s especially frustrating when you've put in the effort, made tremendous progress, and then everything falls apart the moment it's time to showcase your work. For some riders, the discomfort becomes so overwhelming they never even make it into the arena. That only reinforces the negative belief:

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"See... I can't do this." And the cycle continues.



Tap Into the Subconscious & Rewire the Ride


The subconscious holds the answers to why this happens. Once we uncover the underlying messages, we can begin to reprogram them while also equipping you with practical tools you can use in the moment to calm your body, focus your mind, and keep your heightened emotional state from carrying over to your horse.


Science also validates the effectiveness of hypnosis for improving sports performance. In their systematic review of 13 scientific studies, Miró et al. confirmed statistically significant improvements in athletic performance along with reductions in psychological distress during sport participation.


You have a dream of riding, and you've invested time, effort, and money to pursue that dream. Whether your goal is to enter the show ring with confidence, or simply strengthen the partnership between you and your horse, hypnosis can help you quiet the mind, release what's holding you back, and take your riding to the next level—whatever that looks like for you.


Book a free consult and learn how to rewire your ride.


Li Z, Li SX. The Application of Hypnosis in Sports. Front Psychol. 2022 Jan 24;12:771162. doi: 10.3389/fpsyg.2021.771162. PMID: 35140655; PMCID: PMC8820393.


Miró, A., Mesperuza, M., Jensen, M. P., Day, M. A., García, F., & Miró, J. (2025). Therapeutic hypnosis and sports performance: a systematic review. International Review of Sport and Exercise Psychology, 1–21. https://doi.org/10.1080/1750984X.2025.2512535





 
 
 

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DISCLAIMER: I am not a licensed mental health practitioner, counselor, psychologist, or physician. The hypnosis services I provide are complementary in nature and are not a substitute for medical, psychological, or psychiatric care. If you are experiencing physical or mental health concerns, please consult your physician or a qualified licensed provider. In accordance with Florida Statutes Section 485, I do not work with diagnosable medical or mental health conditions without appropriate supervision or referral from a licensed practitioner of the healing arts. While hypnosis can be a powerful tool for change, individual results vary and cannot be guaranteed. Your success depends on your personal commitment, participation, and readiness for change.

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